L o v e

"Have you ever been in love?"
"What is love?"

That got me thinking, what is love? And have I ever felt it? I've only had 1 relationship. I like to think it was love. But I thought love would/should last forever and not disappear after someone fucks up because for love, you should be ready to forgive and do anything for.

So is love something that can just come and go? Relationships that break up, do they ever have love in it or is it just how the 2 people like each other. I'm just assuming that love isn't affection that would include how you like the way the other person thinks, how you like the fact that they can make you laugh or other many small details. Feelings like that can fade away. People grow apart. Or doesn't love have a strong meaning? Because a lot of people use the word lightly. You can love a friend, family, your hobby. But when it comes to a romantic way towards a person, people tend to think it's a really big deal to say.

To be honest, I feel the same way. I wouldn't go saying how I love a person lightly. But saying it about a friend really dear to me is easy.

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.

I think love is something you can't choose to do. It just has to happen. It doesn't have to be love at first sight, oh no. Though I do believe it's possible. Just don't go around mentioning to the person immediately. They 'will' freak out. Unless they're someone easy.

I also think love is something you don't have to work at much. Though one needs to put effort in a relationship.

I think I'm gonna try and figure out what love is for me. Because I believe every person sees it differently.